My husband and I are already having conflicting views on parenthood and it's causing us to clash

2021.11.30 14:16 holsthepisces My husband and I are already having conflicting views on parenthood and it's causing us to clash

We're new parents, our son is barely 2 months old and we're already having disagreements with how he should be taken care of/raised. One of our main ones being where my son should be sleeping. His crib is in our room but he thinks he should be sleeping in his room. He doesn't like the fact that I pump feed and breast feed at night because 1. The noise (even though I leave the room when I pump) and 2. He thinks I'm giving our son an unhealthy routine when I breast feed him late at night, like he's crying in the night because he's used to eating late. That's not the case, I've already explained to him that it physically hurts me when I don't get rid of my excess milk and our baby is really young he's gonna be crying at occasionally at night.
We've both gained quite a bit of weight during my pregnancy and so we're gradually getting back into our routine of working out. He's been doing great and already getting his body back, I've been having a harder time and he has this way of thinking "if I could do it then there's no excuse" and he thinks it's a sign that I'm letting myself slip into an unhealthy routine that's hard to get out of. I've flat out asked him what his problem really was, and if he's being negative because he's scared of fucking up with our son. He told me that part of it was true, he wasn't as nitpicky until our son was born and it all became real. Aside from that, he's also been disappointed with me and how it concerns him what type of mother I would be because I used to have more motivation and stuff.
I know that this is new and can be scary for the both of us but he's making it worse because he doesn't consider the changes my body/mind has gone through. He was super supportive while I was pregnant now he has no patience. I think part of him gets jealous with all the attention I give my son he says "it's my son too" and with the new attention I'm getting from ppl on the outside whether it's good or bad. I've been called a milf on occasion by friends/associates and he knows I hate it but says little things like "how can you still feel bad when ppl are calling you hot?" I'm hoping this is just a new stage we'll eventually figure out but I'm not sure how much more I can deal with on top of caring for our newborn baby and worrying that I'm doing it wrong. Any advice is welcomed here.
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2021.11.30 14:16 navy_null Who runs the fanstagrams?

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This is something I’ve been curious about for a while... Some examples I can think of are the txt or bts fanstagrams! Thanks :)
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2021.11.30 14:16 ksuvuelalfusuwnsl Possible loophole in how Fidelity can lend out our shares and why we need to DRS more aggressively

Hi all,
Admittedly, I'll need adults in the comments to help me put this fully together and point out flaws in my logic.
So I'm sure everyone saw the post of how Fidelity can lend like 13m shares of GME today... I think this is relevant to this.
In this article from 2019, Schwab CEO says that Fidelity's pfof is not the full story and it has an interesting paragraph:
"Fidelity, which is the sole major U.S. online broker that does not accept payment for equity order flow, explained that it provides "retail investors with access to better prices" by internalizing their stock orders. The company's spokesperson added that Fidelity uses payment for order flow in the options markets because those are "structurally different than equities."
https://www.spglobal.com/marketintelligence/en/news-insights/trending/IiJL9zOpAk76f_BrDunluA2
So Fidelity doesn't route our buy orders through dark pools but it does options...
So how would this work? My theory (which could be wrong) is that they're doing this through call options. They don't route our equity buy orders through dark pools. But they can still write options on our shares. So they can write a call for 100 of our shares as the underlying and send them to the dark pool for Kenny to exercise. And hence our shares are in Kenny's possession.
If this is how this is working, Fidelity is still fucking us hard. And the only way to stop this is to DRS.
Looking for someone with wrinkles in the comments to comment on this.
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2021.11.30 14:16 Sociopathix221B Is this lid safe for an abboreal tarantula? (Plus some avic questions)

Is this lid safe for an abboreal tarantula? (Plus some avic questions) Hey there everyone! I recently got myself a cute lil avic. She's about 1.5-2" and super cute, we named her Skittles. I bought an enclosure originally meant for hermit crabs, as I didn't want to buy a reptile enclosure and worry about the mesh screen (and I didn't have enclosure for a spider her size).
She's quite a climber naturally, and this morning she's been on the ceiling of her enclosure. Do you think she could get stuck on a lid like this? I'm worried about removing the lid if she's not stuck and her falling (or stressing her for no reason), let me know what you think! She doesn't look stuck to me, but I've never had a T that climbs on the ceiling haha.
I'd love to upgrade her enclosure to something more vertical, preferrably with side access, in a few months or so, but for now this is what I have. I also want to move some of her things like her log to be more vertical and encourage climbing, but I don't want to stress her as I've only had her about three days now...
Also, as for my avic questions. How humid should I be keeping her enclosure? There's tons of conflicting information online. I don't have any additional cross ventilation right now, so I've decided to let her humidy drop. Additionally, I've never fed an abboreal and plan to later today. Should I just drop in the prey item and leave it? Or is there a certain way you feed your lil climbers? :]
Anyway, any advice is appreciated!
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Also - does leaving in longer hurt or help any? If I have to leave for a few hours can I come back and it’ll be fine in the water than if I just cooked for an hour?
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What are requirements to become a member of cpp committee?
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